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Break Up
Dear
............,
When we broke up, I thought it would be
easy to forget about you.
I was angry, hurt and
relieved that the pain
was finally over. Over the past few months,
I've had time to heal and to think.
I hope you have, too, even though
you seemed to recover quickly and start another
relationship right
away.
I realize now that I didn't cause all our problems.
Sure, I caused my share -- being jealous of the time you
spent hanging out with your friends or playing pointless
computer
games, getting mad at the way you put the
Toilet-paper roll on
the wrong way.
I just felt that, if you really cared, you would try
to meet me halfway. I know you don't like to cover old
ground,
so I'll get to the point. I want us to have another
chance.
The time we've been apart has been
hard, but I think I've learned what's important to me.
I wonder where your heart is right now. I know we risk
getting
hurt all over again, but my feelings for you have
only grown
stronger.
Can we meet for coffee to talk things over?
Hopefully,
Mr. Nice Guy
Dear
................. ,
I haven't told you in so many words, but you are the
nicest guy I've ever met. You're thoughtful,
warm and you have a wonderful
sense of humor. I Know you would like for our friendship
to
blossom, but I'm afraid it's not meant to be.
You are special to me, but the fact
is, you are TOO nice. I guess I'm used to jerks
who cheat, lie and treat me badly.
All the kind things you do make me feel bad -- it's as
though
I don't deserve to be treated so well
and it makes me feel guilty. I know
you will make some lucky woman very happy one day.
Under different
circumstances, maybe it could have
worked for us. But you know
how,
in the movies, where the evil villains
are more exciting to watch than the
good guys? What I'm saying is, I'll always think
of you as a sweet, kind-hearted doormat.
Sincerely,
Second Chance
Dear .............,
This note is to apologize for not being
very friendly when you asked
me if I would go to the
game with you. I admit,
I'm not much of a sports fan, but
that doesn't excuse my rudeness
to your invitation.
What I'm saying is, I've reconsidered
and if you're still looking for a date Saturday night,
you can try asking me again. This time you'll get a
better response. Just so you don't think I'm
another one of those
women who can never make up
their minds, I'll tell you my
reasons...
It's not because I suddenly love to watch
dumb jocks run around yelling and sweating, but the
weekend is
almost here and nobody
cooler has asked me out. So rather than watch
crummy TV on Saturday night, I'll let you buy me dinner
and show me off to your nerdy friends.
(But don't expect anything
afterward other than a polite
handshake, got it?)
See you Saturday,
I would like to
meet you
Dear ......
,
I'm not sure you even know who I am.
We go to the same college.
I tend to be on the shy side when it comes to meeting
people. That is why I haven't been brave
enough to come up and say Hi.
So, I hope you don't mind that I put my thoughts
in this note instead of fumbling for the right words in the
hallway.
What I'm trying to say is that I think you
are very bright and attractive, and I would
enjoy meeting you.
My friends will tell you I'm a good listener, a
nice person with a warm sense of humor.
If you are free next week sometime (Wednesday
evening, Thursday afternoon...),
would you like to meet ? I think it would be fun
to talk and find out what friends and interests
we might share. I'll look forward to your response.
Hopefully,
Will you be mine
boy friends girl friend
Dear...........,
We have been good friends for a long time now,
and we have come to trust one another with secrets we
wouldn't dare anyone else.
You never judge or criticize, and that means a lot to me.
Neither of us would do anything to harm our friendship.
I would feel pretty lonely if I didn't
have your shoulder to lean on.
That's why I might have been acting differently lately.
It's because I have been been bothered (in a good way)
by some mixed feelings.
I want us to be best friends more than anything,
but my heart seems to want more.
I have come to feel an attraction to you that goes
beyond friendship, but I've been afraid
to tell you
because I don't know how you would react.
But then I realized that, if we CAN tell each other
everything, then
I can tell you this... that my feelings for
you have grown into something too strong to ignore.
If you don't feel the same
attraction I do, that will be OK.
We will always be friends.
But if you DO feel something
for me, then don't we owe it to ourselves
to explore the possibilities? Let's talk soon, OK?
Your Friend
Want To Try
Second Date
Dear ........ ,
I've been thinking about our first date ever since
we reluctantly said goodnight. It was a wonderful
evening, one of the nicest I've had in a long time.
I would be a fool to ignore the
warm feelings that are making me smile today.
I hope you don't think I'm coming on too
strong by saying this, but I would very much enjoy
getting together again. Who knows?
A second date
might be even better than the first because we both
would be more
relaxed uncomfortable. There's a new
restaurant I've been wanting to try. It has
good food and a
cozy atmosphere.
If you're free next Friday or Saturday evening, I would
like to invite you to dinner. Again,
at the risk of seeming too forward, I'm looking forward to
getting together again.
Sincerely,
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